I’ve noticed that some people are very self-motivated while others need a little jump start. I am self-motivated with certain things and with other things (such as cleaning my home) I need that jump start. Usually it is the dog toy stuffing strewn across the living room again or the weeds in the garden looking just as healthy as my vegetables. There is another sort of motivation that I experience, though, that only besets me when someone looks me in the eyes and say, “That’s not possible.” or “When pigs fly.”
You see, when I hear those things, I immediately assess the situation to determine the validity of the statement. Not to prove myself right, but to see what kind of work needs to be done to meet the goal. My parents raised me while saying, “Nothing is impossible. You can do what it is you set your mind to doing.” and I took that way serious. I try to live it and instill that value into the young people that I am so lucky to get to hang with and share life.
Things that seem impossible are only difficult to achieve in a lot of circumstances. These things take hard work, dedication, and stick-to-it-ness. Many times it takes other people believing in you, supporting you, and letting you try. Mistakes are just proof that you are trying. Trying is proof that you are dedicated. Dedication is proof that you can overcome challenges. Overcoming challenges means that you have history – which means that you are living – trying things – experiencing new places, people, and adventures.
I want to be the person that says, “You can if you try hard enough, but only you can do the work – I can support you and guide you, though, and I will be there for you whether you fall or you fly.”